The One With The French Cock Jerker

A friend of ours who had been working in an O company for the past 2 1/2 years was recommended for a postion in a C company. They met while handling the same project. Eventhough he was recommended, he still needs to go the normal procedure of interviews – 5 sessions all together. Fast forward, he was hired. Fair and square.

To him it was surreal…

It was supposed to be a standard procedure 30 days notice, or so he thought…

Since his boss, now-ex-boss was busy, he dropped an email explaining his departure. In his boss-now-ex-boss’s room, to his shocking experience he was bombarded regarding his exit. He was being told that he was a lazy good for nothing employee. His decision to leave his current job is stupid, and C company can not provide bright career for him. He was blasted for being an ungrateful staff, and his boss-now-ex-boss regretted in giving him project bonus; in which his Project Manager wanted to give it to him because of his commitment towards the assignment. He told him he should have sacked him earlier. He was told that he was under qualified to join C company since he did not have any professional certificates, and C company was just toying with his naiveness. He even boosted if he wanted to join C company, he could with a snap of the finger. He even can guarantee that my friend will not survive his 3 months probation period. His boss-now-ex-boss even threatened to take legal actions towards my friend, and he will even sue C company for stealing his staff. But, in the next half, his boss-now-ex-boss praised him for providing excellent service throught his tenure in O company. He showed strong results in his work. He is a reliable staff. O company is seeping towards profits in Asia Pacific, and his boss-now-ex-boss wanted him to stay in O company.

To my friend, enough is enough with the bad management. Thank you, but no thank you…

His boss-now-ex-boss refused to accept his 30 days notice and forced him to tender in 24 hours. He followed him to his cubicle, stood like a personal bodyguard and watch him packed his stuff. He did not want my friend to instigate his colleagues to resign from the O company. He only had less than 5 minutes to clear his laptop. He did not even had the chance to send a farewell email to his office mates. He did not had the time to properly hand over his work. His departure became the talk in the O company.

The definition of a walking contradiction…

Such big words from a small cock…

This boss-now-ex-boss was My Bb’s boss-now-ex-boss too during his employment in V company. Cut the story short, frankly, he was not a good manager at all. Whenever he tried to escalate work related problems to him, he would turn the finger back to My Bb. He would blame My Bb for being an incompetent staff if he could not deliver. He constantly blaming My Bb of having an attitude problem. He accused him of being unprofessional. He insulted him many times. He thought he owned him.

All those were in the past, and now he enjoys working in CISCO. He had received few CAP awards for his achievement. Hopefully, many more to come…

To this boss-now-ex-boss – You can brag. You can boost. You can have the biggest stamp “EXPATRIATE” on your forehead. You can have the most superficial Facebook life. You can show off as if you are on top of the world for having a trophy wife. My ego is still pretty much intact. I have no interest. You came from where Eiffel Tower was built. You can be the most stuck up ethnocentric person alive. Let me just say this, if you are always right, and we are all stupid why do you want to stress up yourself surrounded with dumb people? You can always leave. Just pack and go. You know better that if you did, nobody will care your existence. Nobody will care with your “EXPAT” ticket. You are lousy both as a person and as an employer. You may have a shrine where people either foolishly polish your ass and worship you for their personal agenda, but within my sphere it is certainly not. To answer your donkey question years ago, when you asked My Bb the reason I kicked you from my Facebook friend list – “Chloe doesn’t like me”. The answer is a flat YES. Why in the God’s name would you want to know each and every individual personal life. You said business is business, pleasure is pleasure. To me you are neither. Don’t you have enough of your own pleasure that you need to constantly kepochi other people private matter? Are you trying to prove that you are a loser and a stalker at the same time? Not to mention I-found-this-iPhone-In-The-Cab-So-It’s-Mine-And-I-Just-Need-To-Jailbreak and come-let’s-all-have-lunch-when-the-bill-came-the-floor-looks-enticing-to-stare. You claim you are the big shot in the company. How embarrassing. How can a person has skin thicker than a wild boar? How low can a human being go. You are the new low. Yes, the au courant term that we created especially for you last night.

To the friend of ours – Your rise and your fall depend on yourself. Never ever let anyone’s words intimidate you or make you feel small or make you feel insecure. Don’t be easily broken because of the words you heard. True, words are mightier than sword, but you are the mightiest of them all. Those are just words. If you are good, you are good. No justification needed. No proof required. No butter up necessary. It will just show. Don’t pressure yourself, or you will drain fast. Study does not make you a genius in one day. Honest mistakes will still happened even if you had 10 CCIEs. Sorry-learn-rectify-move on. C company is no different from other companies you joined, and you are not a freshie¬†either. Appreciate your blessing in disguise now. Just go with the flow. Enjoy your new work experience. Work life balance. Once again, congrats from us & MotMot, MaikeL, e-toDD & DoriDori.

Till I blog again…

There’s a secret garden, she hides

~Nani Mansor~

 

 

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